Psychological reasoning

A Christian identifies with Christ; he has his own life. It must also have some responsibility in our psychological consciousness, albeit mysterious and different individuals. It is a “consciousness of grace,” one of the most difficult theological problems. Therefore, let’s calm down a special consideration given this aspect about how necessary faith in Christ is in the young man’s upbringing in the difficult years of his life. Psychologists and educators have written various studies of the period of life called puberty, “Difficult years,” the period of maturation, between the ages of 12 and 14 of life. At that time, the psychological experience changes, boys or girls. The child is different, basically happy if he is healthy, no problems. He sees what exists and thinks that what he imagines exists or can soon be realized. Teen is different. He begins to dream with his eyes open, especially before bedtime. He imagines it will be great a scientist or winner of sports competitions, a world-renowned violinist, or an army general.
Jehovah’s future must be great. In her eyes, it is not worth living a gray, meaningless life. Unfortunately, he has no one to talk to about his plans. They would laugh at him. Neither his parents nor his educators understand him. He would like to run away from home during this period. The girl he dreams of marrying a prince feels humbled when they want her to help in the household with ordinary work. In difficult years thus, there is a real crisis of adolescence. On the other hand, “dreams” about the future grow stronger and attract the soul’s whole attention; on the other side of the environment forces a young person not to start from everyday life and deal with unimportant things. How to overcome this crisis? Psychologists say: depending on which teens can overcome these internal contradictions, life will also look like in the future he chooses. If the crisis lasts too long, it will occur in adverse consequences for further developing the personality. How, but will the crisis be resolved normally? We schematically distinguish four options.

FANTASTIC IDEALIST. Some minors get so strong they fall in love with their fantasies, their noble dreams, that it loses its sense of reality. They don’t notice what’s going on. Do you know Christ? Around them. In world literature, this type is masterfully portrayed by Cervantes in his novel Don Quixote. He eagerly read knightly novels. Represents thinking that he is a knight without fear and shame, he will conquer the world in paper armor, and at night he fights with windmills, which he considers enemy forces. Lady  Dulcinea is a great princess in her eyes, and he considers it an insult when someone tells him that he is going about a simple country girl. Not all idealists are so ridiculous. But with a certain amount of ridiculousness, we find them a nice line. They lose real opportunities to their noble ideals. Their lives are always tragic.

REALIST – MATERIALIST, CITIZEN. He also portrayed this type.
Cervantes. He is the exact opposite of Don Quixote, his servant Sancho Panza. He has no ideals. He is respected by what he sees and from which he benefits materially. Appreciate Dulcinea Don Quixote only when he discovers that he is the daughter of a countryman who can work. There are many types. During their adolescence, they wanted to fight for a better world, they had ideals, but they soon lost them. Life turned gray; he became prosaic. There is nothing that can be done; we have to put up with it.

REVOLUTIONARY. After all, he is an idealist. Desires for a better society. However, it is quite realistic. He sees that there is no better life. However, it can be done. It will destroy a hypocritical society that is not ideal, and after The destruction of the old order can begin with creating new. “To destroy them is to create,” said Bakunin, the prototype of Russian revolutionaries. These types are capable of victims. They are active; they believe in a better world. And the result of their efforts? Ironically, all revolutionaries eventually become burghers, and once they get to the government, they wear tails. And if governments don’t seize? It ends up being fantastic idealists, but not as harmless as Don Quixote. Because of their “ideal,” they can kill others.

EKLEKTIK, MAN, THE ONLY CHOICE. It seems that only these Individuals have even found the right solution to their adolescent crisis. At first, they dreamed of many things, that they would realize many ideas, that they would be scientists, artists, politicians, and realize that the proverb is right: who embraces many, grabs little. So they decide and choose only one ideal and leave others as something that does not have much price. The one who deals exclusively with mathematics, he will become a world-renowned mathematician. It’s different from a genius musician for whom there is nothing else. These are usually those called “geniuses. However, there are not many of them. Besides, there is a great danger. If the choice is wrong, life ends tragically as the man who built his house on the sand in the words of the gospel (cf. Luke 6:49). Except which all fanatics and numerous fools are of this kind of because they made radical decisions, but without basics