Another essential means for “sustainable” spiritual growth is order. Keep order, and order will keep you. This is an old Latin proverb. Today, however, we do not like routine or monotony. We see no perspective or dynamics in it and do not understand how it could make us happy. We desire spontaneity more because there we see freedom and the fulfillment of all our dreams. But maintaining order does not mean routine and monotony; it means having boundaries that help us develop evenly, avoid extremes in some areas, and not neglect others. The enemy of our salvation seems to revel in extremes. Either he convinces us to do nothing because we have no time, it is not necessary, or it does not matter anyway, or when we realize that nothing leads anywhere, he shows us a huge mass of neglected tasks and pushes us to do everything quickly. The result is fatigue, discouragement, and a return to doing nothing. So order is an effective means to prevent this.
There is, of course, a second extreme – the world demands flexibility; today everything is flexible, starting with working hours. Then we also want to have some routine that helps us make space for things other than just rushing, but it simply doesn’t work. Of course, situations vary. But the rule remains – you must have a vision and try to realize it as much as possible. What is the smallest step I can and am able to take soon to have more order in my life?
Why is order necessary? The same applies in spiritual life as in learning, sports, or music. It is better to do little regularly than much occasionally. Spiritual life is not a performance to be completed but the meaning of life that every day directs us to the essence – to God. We have other such things too, like work, study, health. But in those areas, we face enough external pressure to act – the boss chases, pain occurs, we fail an exam, we embarrass ourselves. No such pressure exists for spiritual life. Therefore, there is no other choice than to set a daily, weekly routine, establish fixed points, and try to respect them.
Of course, extremes should be avoided – order should not be another opportunity for the evil one to torment us: “See what you are, you couldn’t manage again, you are not capable yet.” On the other hand, it should not be like a tear-off calendar – “If I succeed, I succeed; if not, there’s always tomorrow.” Then a week or a month passes, and we make no progress.
There is an interesting dilemma. Someone might say: “I will read from the Holy Scripture every day.” But the whole day passes, they are restless, tired in the evening, and sit down at the table needing to catch up on many things. So they read two chapters of Scripture. It takes half an hour because they fall asleep after every sentence, but they did it. Does it have meaning? Of course not. Then they say: “Well, I won’t read in such cases anymore.” They start skipping occasionally and then entirely because there is always a lot to do.
So what is better? The Psalmist says: “I do not make false promises” (Psalm 101:3). The daily routine is not meant to be filled with many activities and constantly adding new ones, as if the ideal is always doing more. The daily routine serves to ensure I manage everything necessary that day — time for prayer, work, rest, family, etc., without giving too much time to one thing at the expense of others. Such a routine teaches trust: once I have filled the time set for a task, I no longer focus on it but entrust it to God; He will take care of it. When can I say I have done enough? There is always more to add or improve, always at the expense of sleep, prayer, health, family. Where is the limit? Precisely in the order I have set.
Secondly, if something is occasionally not fulfilled due to exceptions — traveling, large celebrations, illness — nothing happens if something is skipped. What matters is returning to the set order immediately after returning to normal.
Order should not enslave me but give a framework that supports me.
Thirdly, it is necessary to cultivate good judgment and constantly remind yourself of the sense of order. This provides criteria to assess whether a change or omission is just an easier solution for me or a necessity for greater good. Honestly look at yourself. Why are you changing? Is it because it is easier or because after considering circumstances, you concluded that the change is for the greater good?
Fourthly, some things are good to consult. We are not always capable of proper judgment ourselves. The willingness to open topics before another person makes us attentive and humble. We no longer insist only on what we want because we know it must withstand scrutiny from others. One of the tasks of spiritual guidance is to teach discernment. At the start of spiritual growth, spiritual direction may be almost indispensable, as we cannot always discover the essence of our problem. It can easily happen that to remove a weakness, we make a resolution that in fact supports that weakness.
Basically, order is like any medicine. If insufficient, it is ineffective; if excessive, there is risk of overdose. Medicine is unpleasant but can be gotten used to and even become a dependency.
Do I have a daily routine? Does it include essential things? Are there things that are just meaningless drills? Am I missing something significant? Am I a slave to this routine? Have I ever consulted someone about what is essential and what is not?
Order is an excellent means to overcome the “noon demon.” This term is used by older ascetics to describe a state of discouragement, fatigue, laziness that comes upon a monk after morning enthusiasm, usually around noon. This demon also attacks us around the middle of life, around the age of 40, or after initial enthusiasm for a new spiritual activity. Then we lack the desire or strength for anything new and often keep things just out of habit. There is no need to worry if we act just out of habit. That is precisely why we try to form habits: so that in such situations, they hold us and do not allow us to fall deeper. God works in us even at those times.
Order and routine serve as a healthy backbone of life that protects us from extremes, burnout, and helps us grow without undue pressure to perform.
Why do we need order?
– Protection from extremes: Helps avoid laziness or excessive effort trying to do everything at once.
– Regularity: In spiritual life, small daily steps have more significance than occasional great efforts.
– Freedom without slavery: Routine supports us when enthusiasm fades but should not become a tool for self-torment after failure.
Reflection on your daily routine
Final questions from the text invite you to consider if your current lifestyle serves you or if you serve it:
– Do you have clear priorities? Are essential things included (prayer, rest, family, work)?
– Is it just drill? Does your day contain unnecessary duties that tire you but do not move you forward?
– Are you free? Can you accept exceptions without guilt and return to order once the situation calms?
If you like, we can look at:
– How to create a simple daily routine for prayer and rest
– How to overcome the feeling of discouragement (the noon demon)
– Whether you need to consult your state with a spiritual guide
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