Loneliness as a bitter companion.

In the Catholic Church, the fourth Sunday of July is the World Day of Old Parents and Seniors; this year, it fell on July 28. Pope Francis established the celebration in 2021.

Pope Francis in the Basilica of St. Petra blesses the centenarian Lucille Macelli on the 3rd World Day of Grandparents and Seniors on July 23, 2023.

“In the psalms we find a sincere request to the Lord: ‘Do not drive me away at the time of old age’ (Ps 71, 9). It reminds us of the great suffering of Jesus, who cried out on the cross: ‘My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?’ (Mt 27, 46). In the Bible, we find the certainty of God’s closeness in every period of life, but at the same time the fear that God will leave us, especially in old age and in times of suffering. There is no contradiction in that,” writes Pope Francis in his message for this day, entitled Do not leave me in the time of old age.

He notes that loneliness is a good companion for seniors; some retirement homes do not see their loved ones for many months. According to him, eliminating old people results from decisions that do not recognize human dignity. “This happens when people become just a financial burden, too great to be repaid. What’s worse is that in the end, even the old people themselves often succumb to this mentality, who begin to consider themselves a burden, and therefore would prefer to retire somewhere.”

THE ILLUSION OF INDIVIDUALISM

As we grow older, as our strength wanes, the illusion of individualism, according to which we do not need anyone and can live without relationships, is revealed in its essence. “Man discovers that he requires all this, but now he is alone, without help. It’s a sad realization that many come to only when it’s too late.”

The Holy Father highlights a biblical example from the Book of Ruth, where the young bride Ruth breaks social conventions and does not leave the widow Naomi in her old age. “I thank those who take care of an old person or show closeness to relatives or acquaintances who no longer have anyone,” the Pope said.

Seniors can be the ones who help their children and grandchildren find ways of reconciliation and God-blessed solutions to life situations. “I’m begging you to look for ways to comfort family members. You have a lot of experience, you understand the different stages of family life that you have gone through yourself, and you can use your decades of wisdom. You can guide and encourage; remember that. Healing in relationships is so important that you should not be discouraged if your son, daughter, or grandson does not accept your efforts the first time. The family is the foundation we need.”

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