Forgive.

Does that mean forgetting?
Many of the life situations and religious dimensions are often.
They complicate things because the wrong name is one of the basics.
The importance of forgiveness. It’s a necessary page in Every valuable relationship, and for the creative system of faith is Substantial. There is no life without forgiveness. If we accept this, then we often have a problem because we need to understand what the difference is between what to forgive, and to what it means to forget. Forgive the person who has given us. It’s a different thing than ignoring what she did to us. However, we often see these two things as the same — wrongly so. We think that if we did forgive, we would immediately afterward they should have forgotten. A multitude of useless thus victimizes us in Emotional and spiritual conflicts. Such a conflict may be caused by an unhealthy sense of guilt. This makes our already complex mental state difficult. And we’re getting in the sack with ourselves. Because we know that we want to forgive, but we still have this negative feeling of no forgiveness; we feel like hypocrites.

This confusion – and this is an unfortunate problem – persists almost
As an epidemic among religious cartoonists, both young and old, educated and uneducated, traditional progressives. What’s this all about? People cannot reach the simple, but the crucial distinction between forgiveness as an act and forgiveness is a sentiment. If we don’t make this distinction, we’ll find ourselves in the grip, let’s see what we have. The act of forgiveness is precisely this: It’s a choice, a decision based on in our creative belief; it is an act of will and intention, based on our common sense. It’s a shot of the hand to the man, an invitation to go back to the past relationship. It may be an act of brutal but decisive, it may be cold and may not be accompanied by Kindness, positive feelings, but it must always be genuine, genuine.

I think that Christ’s act of forgiveness on the cross: ‘Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they’re doing, “was of this nature. It isn’t easy to imagine that. In all his physical and emotional suffering, Jewish had some warm, positive feelings! The fact that a person may be forgiven may still be a fact, but the feeling of being ignored. It can continue over time. When « not waived » We will build it directly; we will deal with it honestly, and We chew through it, it gradually dissolves? Then the process begins. Forgetfulness. The process of forgetting is precisely the process that involves our feelings  which we must consider and give to them. We don’t have a chance. Checks on how we feel, but only checks on how we act and how we work with our feelings. We let our emotions get the better of us, or do we control them? They hold us when, for example, we behave towards to another person, subtly, measured or hostile when it comes to feelings, people are often unclear about what is sinful. Sin is not in our senses but our behavior. If the spouse, it will release its partner; it must use its negative feelings to they retreated, and the feelings returned thoughtfully. Because even if we forgive, feelings of resistance often remains, and that’s normal. But if it’s repulsive, reporting, that’s sinful.
It takes time and effort to feel negative feelings. How much time and you have to try; it’s different. It depends on our personalities, temperament, and how much we have enjoyed each other. When, however, we have realized that not everyone may accompany the feelings of forgiveness act of forgiveness, we got rid of contradictory emotions: Self-condemnation and a lot of internal confusion. This way we can avoid The gratuitous guilt and start dealing with the actual blame. The negative feelings of anger and hatred that result from the fact that we are some people, they’re not only normal, but we wouldn’t be human if we were they didn’t feel them. People sometimes deny these feelings because they can not they want to avoid dealing with them. They feel embarrassed, dissatisfied, and guilty. However, these feelings are real, although they are not always justified. We have to look at them directly, and we have to accept them. What we need to do is the counter-intuitive feelings of guilt that are the result of our temporary inability to forget so that our situation does not become a burden; and they didn’t make us feel any less valuable.

People often feel like hypocrites and culprits because of one the parties admit that they are Christians and want to forgive, but on the other hand, parties may not express their negative feelings towards each other. Such a man takes note of: “If I have forgiven this person, why do I have these terrible feelings, What about the resistance? I guess I didn’t really forgive her! ” However, the truth is that we can indeed forgive, even if to forget and to heal our negative feelings, we need time. We have to live with these feelings for a while. Divorce, victimization, terrorism and war, the birth of their children and those who have been rejected, children neglected and lived by their parents,
Unnoticed by the elderly and young whose elderly do not belong to them — all of whom they are made to suffer from a lack of awareness and sensitivity of each day’s life, they can forgive. However, we must realize that time is needed, before they forget about it. We can’t let any of the time set by the frame of forgetting. Each of us has a different ability. Makeup with each other. All mental, emotional and physical factors should be considered.

Spiritual and religious means to help ourselves Grow up and forget. When people sometimes feel that they are losing control of their lives,
They seek a unique counseling service to help them with their feelings.
To master, conquer and heal them. Some of them maybe We will never forget; even when wounds heal, scars often remain.  These scars, such as the scars of Krião, may be signs that we are with him. By being able to forgive as he forgave. As we take time to forgive, we have to be willing. Give time to those who have offended us. Even though they’ve forgiven us, we have to let them. To be loved again and to be loved again, to give us space and time. This is often not understood in the context of marriage and family life. We’re getting impatient; we’re expecting the ruptured.  He’ll go straight back to normal. It can often be used to subsequent forgiveness is the basis of a relationship. However, still, some relationships will never be the same. Another essential aspect of this topic is that forgetting doesn’t necessarily mean forgiving.  The experience of forgiveness may be forgotten in a way that.

How to avoid the pain and injury caused by the rash. In the wounded City game, we defend ourselves to Truly forgive. We’ll never forget you if you’re first we don’t admit that we’ve been lied to, and then we don’t go through with the fight, and the satisfaction of forgiveness. Watch out for people who very soon: “Forget it! “They don’t leave us hanging in the dark about what s in the’re feeling things. We don’t know if they’ve forgiven us. When people forget, the negative feelings usually get under the skin, and this can be very dangerous. Hidden negative emotions can be conveyed overtime “in the same negative form. The act of forgiveness is one thing, but the art of forgetting is another. No.
It takes time, and it is a human process that can be facilitated by prayer and prayer. Use and possibly expert advice. Like God, we can also often forgive right away. But only God can forget right away.

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