Young people today live under one roof and we still talk about natural methods


LET’S NOT BE AFRAID TO SUFFER
THE SUN IS BEHIND THE CLOUDS
SUFFER IN SILENCE
JESUS’ MERCY
Questions to think about
Jesus’ temptation and its meaning
Our temptations
Temptations in prayer
How to overcome temptation?

“Our marriage preparation system is not only insufficient but from our point of view it is even demotivating. Sitting around the table and talking about the topics of Christian marriage is quite unattractive for today’s betrothed,” said the Ďurinovci couple, who participated in the preparations for the marriage.Veronika Ďurinová is an ophthalmologist and her husband Juraj Ďurina is a gastroenterologist, they have three children. Both are committed Catholics, used to serving in the church among families or with children.
When the parish asked them to be involved as doctors in the preparation of couples for sacramental marriage, they gladly agreed and together with other couples organized courses for engaged couples. Today, they speak openly about why they left this service.
“Betrothed today can’t even communicate with each other, they don’t know each other. We can later reach God through natural human themes. But imagine having to talk about natural family planning to people who not only can’t pray, but can’t even talk honestly with each other. In the church, we should already openly name what the reality is in this area, what kind of people and in what situations go to betrothal preparations,” the Ďurinovs claim in the interview.
Today we stand on the threshold of the Lenten season, which urges us to “repentance of heart.” And whoever we are, wherever we are and however well we live or fail, this is the promised time in which the Lord lets us find ourselves again. He desires nothing else, only that when he calls in our heart, we have the courage to listen to his voice and find ourselves in it. The psalmist’s words come to life as a call: “Hear his voice today: “Do not harden your hearts” (Psalm 95:8).
In the living tradition of the Church, Lent is experienced as a “journey of repentance.” In prayer, we call on God to make himself known to us and guide us in his word and presence in the midst of our lives. To make our “crossing over the Red Sea” with us. Passage from the “land of the heart” marked by unbelief, revelry, numbness, lassitude, inconstancy, undue hesitation, mistrust of oneself and others, timidity in dialogue, fear of opening up to others, inability to fight with evil and sin. In connection with such a possible disposition of the soul, we may recall the image of a meadow that is gradually consumed by fire.
In the past, pastures were burned to kill the old ones and destroy pests. And even if everything falls to ashes and at first sight the land is decimated, after a while new grass will grow, the meadows will bloom again and life will be renewed on them. Maybe like never before. Shouldn’t something similar happen with our soul? Now is not the time when Jesus also tells us: “I have come to cast fire on the earth; and what do I want? Only to catch fire” (Lk 12, 49)! The fire of God’s Spirit, which burns everything harmful, but ignites hearts in the bud to a true life of God’s love. This internal action of God’s Spirit is well described by the psalmist’s request: “Search me, Lord, and test me, burn my heart and mind with fire” (Ps 26, 2).
Lent is also a “path of conversion,” on which God wants to draw me essentially to himself. From the experience of many, it seems that God will guide us through our “personal weakness.” As Bili Gaham writes in the introduction of the book – Walking by Grace: “However, the truth is that those who rely on themselves quickly burn out. And when we are burned out, destroyed, and down, God teaches us that trusting Christ is more important than trusting only in our own abilities.” (S. MCVEY, Walking by Grace, i527.net, 214, p. 14) An extended history of the soul of a Christian is that his faith does not work as it should or as he would imagine. And so it turns off to perform with the last strength until it breaks. The accompanying sign is that he has been living in superficiality for an extended period of time, thus turning a sincere and searching Christian into a frustrated Christian. This experience of spiritual life is illustrated by the boldly told story of the American pastor in Alabama, Steve McVey. In the already mentioned book, he writes: “It happened on October 6, 1990. The clock in my study showed one after midnight and I was lying on the floor crying. Last year was miserable. I prayed that God would strengthen me, but He had a different plan for me. He made me weaker. And so I lay there – broken and without hope. In seventeen hours I was to give an annual report on the current state of our church. I could fake successes or come out with the truth. But I didn’t have the strength to pretend anything, I didn’t even have the courage to confess, so I just prayed and cried (…). It didn’t make sense to me. Has the God of this congregation called me to prepare a cruel fall for me? Did he not see what he was doing for Him? I had no idea what more he expected from me. I really tried my best. God, what else can I do? Silence. At that moment, it seemed that he was a thousand light years away from me. The burden of failure was suffocating me, and not just as a pastor. I felt that I had also failed as a Christian. If I serve God all my life and it’s still not enough, what else does he want from me?” (S. McVey, p. 19)
In the book, he describes his experience that in a culture where success is required at any cost, it develops on a person incredible pressure. “However, this pressure does not stop at the gates of the church. Many Christians strive to live to please Christ and eventually find that the Christian life does not work out the way they imagined it would. They are sincerely religious people and they try to serve Christ with all their might. Yet they are disgusted because they have some idea of what a Christian should do and they can’t do it. Their spiritual life is not wonderful, but they have come to the opinion that it will not be better.” (S. McVey, p. 21) After all, Christ promised us a blessed life with him, but nevertheless they find themselves in a “life marked by mediocrity.” How mentions, “such Christians long for a victorious Christian life, but do not know how to achieve it.” (S.McVey, p. 22)
Everyone who has become a Christian will find that the most important thing on the path of following the Lord is the bond of faith and the personal relationship of love through which God gives us the grace of salvation. No one can do anything to achieve it alone, as the Lord teaches us. Of course, the effort and will to live from this relationship will come as the next step. But many who converted understood that “our effort to do something for God will not help us experience victory (…). Did the effort bring you a feeling of real joy? For many years of my Christian life I lived in a trap characterized by this cycle: motivation – disgust – new surrender to God.” (S. McVey, p. 22)
This is supported, as he further mentions, by the prevailing opinion that “success comes from absolute surrender things and hard work (…). But it doesn’t work like that in spiritual life (…). Christian life is not based on performance, it is mainly focused on the person of Jesus Christ (…). Many contemporary Christians judge the quality of their spiritual life by whether they live in accordance with religious rules. Finally, they themselves will understand that despite all the efforts, this path leads nowhere.” (S. McVey, p. 28-29) What is the way out in all this, how to continue on the path, when it seems that many things of the spiritual life are no longer in control to stand on “own feet.” Steve confesses: “That morning (…), the Holy Spirit did a saving work in my heart and swallowed me up completely (…). It is a result of his grace in me that I have not experienced in more than eighteen years.” (S. McVey, p. 34)
The next evening he told the whole community from the pulpit that he was convinced “that we should cancel all programs and activities and simply only they began to seek God.” He confided in them that the Lord implanted his words in his mind: “That I may know Him and the power of His resurrection and share in His sufferings” (Phil 3, 10) The result was that “we started more together to pray (…). We started men’s prayer meetings every Tuesday at 6:30 p.m. Our women gradually began to meet and pray together. Our Bible studies began to focus on a sincere search for God. God similarly worked in our community as in my private life – he gradually broke us.” (S. McVey, p. 34-35)
Steve’s experience of faith shows us that even at this time, the Lord wants to unlearn us from relying on our own thinking strategy to fulfill our needs. The Bible calls this mechanism the body. It contains its own ways: desires, plans, motives, inclinations, with which we try to fulfill our needs without Christ, (cf. S. McVey, p. 35-36) In this situation, I think that “God will put more on your shoulders , than you can bear especially when he wants to break you. God will allow the burden to be greater than you can bear, so that we finally allow Him to carry the burden for you. God’s intention in this educational process is to bring you to the end of your strength, so that you understand that He is the only strength you need in life.” (S. McVey, p. 39) In this season of Lent, we can come to a similar experience as the pastor Steve that we have reached the end of our human possibilities. And then the only thing left for us will be Him. But as he says: “And that was not a bad beginning at all.” (S. McVey, p. 35)
We ask you, Lord, to lead us along your path of salvation to live a happier life of faith. To clean our well from all deposits of passions, bad habits, blocks, fears or prejudices that paralyze our reason, feelings, will, our life of faith and love. Teach us to open our hearts before You, Lord, with humility and courage. Shine a ray of your light into that well of ours. Let it be seen how much and what kind of water is in it. Strengthen us in faith that soon we will drink from it to our heart’s content and with joy we will be able to draw for you and quench your urgent thirst when we hear your voice (from the cross): “I thirst (for you).” (cf. Jn 19 , 28) From now on, I also follow you, Lord.
So what is the relationship between repentance and salvation? Acts seem to focus primarily on repentance rather than salvation (Acts 2:38; 3:19; 11:18; 17:30; 20:21; 26:20). To repent about salvation is to change your mind about Jesus Christ. Peter ends his sermon at Pentecost (Acts 2) with a call to repentance (Acts 2:38). Repentance of what? Peter calls the people who rejected Jesus (Acts 2:36) to change their thinking to recognize that He is indeed “Lord and Messiah” (Acts 2:36). Peter is calling people to change their minds from rejecting Christ as Messiah to believing in Him as Messiah and Savior.
Repentance and faith can be understood as “two sides of the same coin.” It is impossible to place your faith in Jesus Christ as your Savior without changing your mind about who He is and what He has done. Whether it is repentance from willful rejection or repentance from ignorance or disinterest, it is a change of mind. Biblical repentance to salvation is changing one’s mind from rejecting Christ to believing in Him.
We must understand that repentance is not an activity that we do to earn or obtain salvation. No one can repent and come to God unless God draws him to himself (John 6:44). Acts 5:31 and 11:18 indicate that repentance is something God gives—it is only possible through His grace. No one can repent unless God provides repentance. The result of all salvation, including repentance and faith, is that God draws us to Himself, opens our eyes, and changes our hearts. God’s patience leads us to repentance (2 Peter 3:9), as does His kindness (Romans 2:4).
Although repentance is not a work by which salvation can be earned, repentance to or for salvation results in works. It is impossible to truly and fully change one’s mind without it being reflected in actions. In the Bible, repentance leads to a change in behavior. This is why John the Baptist called people to “bear fruit worthy of repentance” (Matthew 3:8). A person who has truly repented from rejecting Christ to having faith in Christ will have visible evidence of a changed life (2 Corinthians 5:17; Galatians 5:19–23; James 2:14–26). Correctly defining repentance is necessary for salvation. Biblical repentance changes your mind about Jesus Christ and turns you to God in faith for salvation (Acts 3:19). The definition of repentance is not turning away from sin; that is just one of the results of sincere, faith-based repentance to the Lord Jesus Christ.