Having the courage today to offer more than just anthropology, ethics, or psychology means a new form of martyrdom for the current.


Overcoming life’s difficulties fills us with joy that we love to share with others. It is actually a story about our heroic deeds, the joy of overcoming evil, defeating it and getting out of it. However, the difficult trial that God led us through does not have to be a one-time trial, but He can lead us through it again and again. How do we behave? We often lose faith in his power, strength and love, which guides us, and thus with our fear we make life’s journey more difficult for our neighbors. Our fear is sometimes even panicky, which has nothing to do with caution, because it springs from our little faith, even unbelief.
That is why it is important to have confidence in suffering. Are we not ashamed of the Old Testament Job, who suffered so much, which the Church gives us as an example in today’s 1st reading? He did not whine, he did not grumble, he was and remained a man of firm faith even in the most difficult life situations. He was able to accept from God’s hands and with firm faith to safely go through what today’s world calls a stressful situation, thus clearly confirming that where there is no faith, there is no life. Let’s not be surprised that the apostles had a “little soul” on the stormy sea and called out to Jesus: Teacher, don’t you care that we are perishing? They did not understand that it was he who cared about their lives, because they had not yet seen him suffer and die. They could not even imagine that in their apostolic life they would have to sail through many stormy seas at his command, while the terrible waves of human passions, ignorance, hatred, and enmity would rise against them.
Such were the apostles of yesterday. And today? Through Christ’s blood and resurrection, they became a new creation, which, together with the apostle Paul, asks: Who will separate us from Christ’s love? Perhaps distress, or persecution, hunger, or nakedness, danger or sword?
We are also a new creation after baptism. That’s when the Lord entered the boat of our life, and we have to sail with him to the other shore to the port of salvation. We don’t swim alone, but with him! But what are we like? Timid, unbelieving, scared, maybe even ashamed of him for dating us. But let’s not forget that we are Christians of a new type who should ask: Who will separate us from Christ? Storms, discomforts of life, troubles, difficulties or bad people?
A group of tourists was climbing a high mountain to spend the night there. They wanted to see the sunrise in the morning. As they laboriously ascended, before they reached the top, they noticed that a storm was approaching. One of the tourists immediately said to the guide: Look, there will be a storm. Take us back! The mountain guide smiled and calmly said: I think we will soon be after the storm. We have to go higher. That’s the best and fastest way to escape from her. So they ascended higher, and indeed in a little while they came to a place where it was clear and calm as in any other summer weather. A storm roared below them, they heard the rumble of thunder and flashes of lightning, but on top it was calm and clear. Once they believed the guide, they avoided the storm.
How do we believe in Christ? What is my faith? Don’t I only need it when I need something? Am I not one of those people who pull Jesus from heaven only when things are bad? We are not ashamed to pray always and under all circumstances, but not to cry desperately: Lord, save us, help us! And he calms the storm on the sea of our life and calms its turbulent surface. We just have to trust him!
Jesus calls and frees S writer Karl Zuchart wrote the novel Die, a fool, in which he describes the life of a philosopher, scholar, teacher, and adviser to King Henry VIII, also a saint – Thomas Morus. The writer puts the words in the king’s mouth addressed to Thomas: Die, fool! Why crazy? He was smarter than the king! Tomas was a religious person. He was aware that he must not agree to the king’s sin, even at the cost of his life. Therefore, he was a fool in the eyes of the king, but he is a darling in the eyes of God. Tomáš Morus believed Christ’s words and proved with his own life the truth of the words from today’s Gospel. If anyone comes to me and does not hate his father, mother, wife, children, brothers, sisters, even his life, he cannot be my disciple. And whoever follows me and does not carry his cross cannot be my disciple » Lk 14, 26-27. In fact, these are two very close, although different teachings, on the basis of which a person becomes a disciple of the Lord Jesus. More clearly, Jesus addresses each of us if we want to count ourselves as his followers. Above all, the Lord Jesus points out the relationships that should arise between the members of our family, between us and our environment, how we should understand these relationships if we want to belong to Jesus. He also discusses our relationship with material goods so that we can remain faithful to the Lord Jesus. The words of the Lord Jesus, which touch on relationships with other people, amaze us, if not offend us at all: “If anyone comes to me and does not hate his father, mother, wife, children, brothers, sisters, even his own life, he cannot be mine disciples” (Luke 14:26). Strange words. Should we doubt that they were spoken by Jesus, who tells us that children should love their parents, that spouses should live in love and forgiveness? yes, Jesus says so. This statement seems to have struck fear into numerous groups of believers, and therefore the exegetes explain that the term “hate” must not be taken in the sense of our colloquial speech, because it does not refer to aggression. In reality, however, the Lord Jesus teaches us to love God and our neighbor.
Only the Lord Jesus can free us from the state of sin, which means that we cannot show love, nor can we maintain it in our relationship with sinners when sin separates us from God, because then it also separates us from our brothers. A sinner cannot love as he should. It would be wrong to admit that the Lord Jesus tells us to hate someone, on the contrary, Jesus wants to strengthen love in us. With his help, we can learn love and show it appropriately to others.
Jesus said: “Greater love has no one than to lay down one’s life for one’s friends” (John 15:13). After committing sin, we are also his enemies. Lord Jesus also died for our sins, and that is why he wants to work with us when he says: “Whoever wants to come after me, let him deny himself, take up his cross and follow me” (Mt 13:24). This means experiencing again and again the mystery of death and resurrection with the Lord Jesus, and thus overcoming the evil way of love in ourselves, so that we can learn true love from the Lord Jesus through a change in ourselves. Saint Paul writes to Philemon, who has a slave, Onesimus. The slave runs away from him. Onezim meets Paul, who is in prison and accepts the teachings of the Lord Jesus there. Paul baptizes him and he becomes, as it were, Paul’s son. In this spirit, Paul writes a letter to Philemon, which he sends after Onesimus. In the letter, he points to love, that is, to the teaching of Christ, which Philemon and Onesimus also believed. So love must change everything. Therefore, Philemon should realize that although Onesimus is still his slave, but in the teaching he received from him, they are both brothers. Slave and master. Paul writes these words very psychologically, which is a wonderful thought for this time. Paul could have kept Onesimus with him as a helper in prison, but he sends him back to Philemon with the belief that this is how Philemon will truly show his love for the Lord Jesus.
Jesus also points out our correct relationship to material things, with two stories – parables about a man who wants to build a tower and a king who wants to wage war. Both make the same mistake. They lack responsible preparation for events. After all, common sense says that if you want to build something, first calculate whether you have it, whether you will be able to cover the costs you will need for the construction. Similarly, even if you want to start a fight against a stronger one, it is better to choose an agreement instead. With these words, the Lord Jesus confirms how it is necessary to have money for construction and the power of weapons for war, so it is necessary to renounce one’s desires and wishes, which could harm the soul, and thus I could not become a friend of Christ. This is not just a kind of partial, but a total friendship with the Lord Jesus. These words of the Gospel tell us that the multitudes who follow Jesus, which includes us, Jesus does not want to lie. Whoever wants to follow him must realize that it will cost him something. Therefore, a person must make a decision freely and voluntarily.
God on the cross is defeated before the world. But on the third day he is the biggest winner. Let’s realize that the student is not above the teacher. So, if we want to be disciples of Jesus, we must be able to take a proper attitude towards our own life. We often get caught up in nice words. Then we will make many things easier for ourselves. But let’s look a little further than the end of the nose! What will happen when we have to leave this world? Do we want to experience disappointment? He who began to build and could not finish will be laughed at. Do we also want to know ridicule at the end of our lives? He who wanted to go against the odds will be defeated. Do we also want to feel the most terrible defeat when we meet Jesus, our Judge? These words speak to us because no things, whether material or spiritual, no person, even the sweetest, no career and power of the disciple must prevail over the true love that is God! Therefore, let us not be afraid, let us try to control ourselves, to command ourselves when it comes to things beneficial for the salvation of the immortal soul. On the other hand, if we keep what God requires of us, He will repay us a hundredfold here on earth and once in eternity.
When the famous pagan teacher of rhetoric – Libanius – was dying, the students asked: Whom do you recommend as your successor? John of Antioch of Syria, if the Christians had not won him! John was baptized at the age of 20. He sat with this pagan teacher, but he also studied with Bishop Meletios, who also initiated him into the Holy Scriptures. He was amazingly humble. He was ordained as a preacher in Constantinople in the Church of Hagia Sophia, in the Temple of Wisdom. He soon earned the nickname “Goldilocks” for his eloquence in proclaiming God’s word. The emperor wanted to have him with him. However, John was faithful to Christ. He admonished, reprimanded, encouraged without exception, whether it was the common people or the emperor. He preached the living Gospel. Empress Eudoxia hated John because his sermons interfered with her plans. John could not be bought or intimidated. He was not afraid of the cross he carried as a preacher. Eudoxia banished him from the city. The people cried, the empress cheered. But not for long. On the night that John left Constantinople, there was a strong earthquake. Everyone saw the finger of God in this for the exiled John. The emperor called him back. John always put God first. He feared God more than men. He considered it more an honor to fulfill the will of God than the will of people. This is a lesson for us as well. Let us not make God sad by sin! Every sin is a betrayal of God’s love. Let’s realize that what made John great can make us, too. He was not afraid of intimidation, threats, oppression, because that’s when we announce our baptism. Then we are leaven, salt, light for this world. John was still in exile twice. There, too, he proved his faithfulness and devotion to God. He wasn’t afraid. On the way to exile, he fell exhausted in the town of Komane in Little Armenia.
Did we understand? The greater the sacrifice, the greater the reward. The reward in the case of the Lord Jesus awaits us, partly already here on earth with a clear conscience, but especially in eternity. Let us examine our conscience if we are not preferring something else, someone else, before God, so we are setting ourselves up for ridicule when we will not be able to finish our tower here on earth, because we will be called away, and maybe soon. Or do we want to oppose God who called us to this world and want to fight against him, stomp, insult, not fulfill our duties?! Tomáš Morus did not betray his convictions. He didn’t sign. And the king’s words: – Die, fool! – he said not to Tomáš, but to himself! Tomas lives…
“Jesus’ words are clear (…). And it is not an option, and it is a command (…) He knows very well that loving our enemies is beyond our ability, so he became a man: not to leave us as we are, but to transform us into men and women capable of greater love, the love of theirs and our Father (…). This command to respond to insults and evil with love, created a new culture in the world: the culture of mercy (…). It is a revolution of love, the protagonists of which are the martyrs of all times”[1].
To achieve this, we place all our hope in grace. “I want to keep your precepts, never leave me” (Ps 119, 8), we pray in the psalm. God’s help works not only in our will but also in our minds and hearts. “I believe that I have no enemies,” wrote St. Josemaría at the time of the persecution. “In my life, I met people who hurt me, positively harmed me. I don’t think they’re enemies: I’m too small to have them. However, from now on they are included in the category of my benefactors, so I can entrust them to our Lord every day”[2].
God sends rain on the good and the bad…
“WHAT REASON DO YOU HAVE not to love?” asks St. John Chrysostom. “That’s the other answered your kindness with insults? That he wanted to shed your blood in gratitude for your favors? But if you love for Christ, these are reasons to love all the more. Because what destroys the friendships of this world strengthens the love of Christ. How? First, that ungrateful person is the cause of a greater reward for you. Secondly, this one needs more help and more intensive care”[3]. How gray the world would be if all people were the same and all were equally pleasant to us! This is not the reality, and Jesus asks us to love, pray for and serve everyone. To think otherwise reminds us of Cain’s words burning with envy and hatred: “Am I my brother’s keeper?” (Gn 4:9).
If we turn our gaze to Christ, his love for all people will be heard in our soul: “That you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven. After all, he makes the sun rise on the bad and the good, and sends rain on the just and the unjust” (Mt 5, 45). “Today it will do us good to remember an enemy – I think each of us has one – who has done us wrong, or who wants to do us wrong, or who is trying to do us wrong. Let’s pray for him. Let us ask the Lord to give us the grace to love him”[4]. However, we don’t have to think about distant places, battlefields, or powerful enemies. Maybe even at home, we must fight to understand, forgive, and not hold grudges against our brother, daughter, or husband. How often have we seen grace make possible what we could not imagine before?
To bring the battlefield into our own lives…
“PEOPLE WITHOUT THE DESIRE TO CORRECT themselves are those who cease to pay attention to their own sins to focus on the sins of others,” writes St. Augustine. “They are not looking for what needs to be fixed, but what they can bite. And since they cannot justify themselves, they are always ready to accuse others”[5]. Accepting the task of loving our enemies means that we also learn to focus on our weaknesses, mistakes, and everything that has yet to be identified with Christ. This attitude is imbued with a much greater practical realism because what we can change with God’s help is what we have in our hearts. We leave the imaginary battlefield – the lives of others – to fill the world with the good of a much closer struggle. We let God change the course of history while we fix the one we have.
“We must be able to excuse everyone, and we must be able to forgive everyone. We will not call the unjust righteous, we will not say that insulting God is not an insult to God, and we will not call evil good. However, we will not respond to evil with other evil, but with clear teaching and good deeds: we will drown evil in the abundance of good (cf. Rom 12, 21)”[6]. It’s not that we don’t correct ourselves when circumstances call for it. It’s not about naivety but quite the opposite: acquiring God’s wisdom. A mature, generous, prudent love can forget wrongs, ignore errors of appreciation, gain courage, and imitate Christ on the cross: “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do” (Lk 23, 34). We can ask Our Lady, Queen of Peace, to teach us to love all her children, to pray for those who may have harmed us, and to help us transfer the battlefield to our souls: to fight against ourselves and not against others.

The Gospel is part of the Sermon on the Mount, the first of the great speeches in which Saint Matthew summarizes Jesus’ teaching about the Kingdom of God. Jesus describes in detail the attitudes we should maintain about the Law, to God, to our neighbor, and prayer. At the beginning of the talk, he describes in detail the Beatitudes, which depict the face of Jesus Christ and show his love. Here, Jesus teaches us the fullness of the Law and invites us to go one step further, to live the Christian life not as commandments to be fulfilled but as attitudes to be achieved. Blessed means blessed. The Beatitudes are our path to happiness.
In this context, we should understand today’s gospel. Jesus descends to specific details to achieve the fullness of the Law.
On the occasion of the provision on adultery (cf. Ex 20:14; Deut 5:18), Jesus calls for high respect for others, which is the basis of the Law. If adultery consists in seizing a married person for personal gratification, it must not be done internally either, where the same sin is committed, even if not externally: “he has committed adultery in his heart” (v. 28). A teaching that calls for the surrender of the fullness of the heart. To be blessed and to achieve greater happiness, we must have a pure heart, a heart in love, where there is no place for selfishness, for the impure thoughts of the human heart.
Jesus also talks about the ancient practice of letting go. The law of Moses established the obligation of repudiation: a document signed by the husband authorizing the wife to be taken by another man. However, to emphasize the greatness and dignity of the marriage union with a woman, Jesus makes all rejections invalid because they still expose the woman and the one who received her to adultery.
Master urges us always to look within. Sin is not only an external but also an internal act. It harms us because it distances us from God and our neighbor. Therefore, the ability to overcome internal temptation predisposes us to be freer people because we have room for God, and for others, we are more able to love.
Jesus calls us to always look at the inner roots of our sins. Let’s ask him for grace so that we always have a heart ready to love God and neighbor, freed from the bonds of sin.