Intemperance

An intemperate person is one who has gone beyond the proper limits in eating and drinking. It is, of course, not easy to say where this begins and ends. Moralists, therefore, usually content themselves with four general guidelines. The first rule is external, social. The immoderate is one who cannot abstain from food or drink that is expressly forbidden, e.g., who eats meat on days when abstinence is enjoined, who cannot withhold it even on the two days of Lent days of the ecclesiastical year (Ash Wednesday and Good Friday).
There are, however, other forbidden foods. The sick are sometimes ordered to doctors put the sick on a strict diet. It is, understandably, an unstrict one who breaks it despite the damage to his health. The one who is considered intemperate we also consider one who cannot control his eating and conform to the rules of decency and good customs of the society in which he lives.

The second rule concerns personal moderation. We eat and drink to make the body strong. Thus, immoderate is anyone who weakens himself by eating and drinking, who destroys his health and efficiency, who gets drunk, etc. Everything that God has created is to serve good. Sin is the misuse of God’s gifts. Usually natural feeling and experience are enough to know, when we are full and when harmful overeating begins.

The third rule is more subtle and seems to apply only to
those who strive for greater perfection. Spiritual writers consider both intemperance and pickiness in eating to be intemperance,seeking out expensive foods and delicacies. As a reason is that it feeds the senses while weakening the will and the endurance to endure the hardships of life. The experience of daily life, however, confirms that they are ill-equipped for life those who have not learned fastidiousness and avarice from youth. Nevertheless, most good people have feel as if they were touching their honest right to make a profit and enjoy themselves with their own money. Naturally, this cannot and should not be denied to anyone. For we eat not only to keep ourselves alive, but also to feel good, to be satisfied. However, there are limits here, too. Social justice demands that others feel good too. Can this fully justify the unnecessary and exorbitant expenditure that goes down our throats when a third of the globe suffers malnutrition and outright starvation? In that case, is it really ‘our own’ even that which is unnecessary?
The fourth rule, in turn, is related to the spiritual ideal. The perfect Christian is to bear witness to the power of the spirit. It is difficult to speak here of the virtue of spiritual values when one sees in one who professes them, that he is blindly subject to carnal inclinations, and that during meals everything else takes a back seat. It is thus considered immoderate to eat and drink, which is undisciplined, with animal predation, where the appetite and the stomach become stronger than ourselves.
Of the dangers of intemperance to the health of the body the physicians have spoken sufficiently. They say jocularly that they have taken over upon themselves today the old ecclesiastical duty of imposing upon the people fasts. It is not, of course, only intemperance in eating. We know well how sad are the effects of alcoholism, of excessive smoking, and especially of the use of narcotic and irritating
poisons.
The ascetic writers are more concerned with spiritual damage. Intemperance is the manifestation of a weak will and a lack of interest in the higher values. He who cannot control himself in such small matters will soon, as it is figuratively said, sell his birthright in the kingdom of God for a lentil (cf. Gn 25:29). Immodesty is called “the mother of fornication.” Strong diet, understandably, feeds the carnal urges, and strong drinks diminish the sense of responsibility.
According to St. John Climacus, intemperance is “the hypocrisy of the stomach, which laments that it is empty even when it is filled to the top… Gluttony of food is the cause of sensuality; mortification of the stomach leads to purity. If you pet a lion, sometimes it can be tamed, but the body, the more it is indulged, the wilder the animal becomes… Control intemperance before it controls you”!

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What does the Bible say about suffering?

Of all the challenges facing Christianity in modern times, perhaps the most difficult to explain is the problem of suffering. How can a loving God allow suffering to continue in the world he created? For those who have lived through enormous suffering themselves, this is much more than a philosophical problem, but a deeply rooted personal and emotional one. How does the Bible address this question? Does the Bible give us some examples of suffering and some pointers on how to deal with it?

The Bible is surprisingly realistic about the problem of enduring suffering. First, the Bible devotes an entire book to solving this problem. This book is about a man named Job. It begins with a scene in heaven that provides the reader with the background of Job’s suffering. Job suffers because God wrestled with Satan. As far as we know, Job or any of his friends never knew this. Therefore, it is not surprising that everyone tries to explain Job’s suffering from the perspective of their ignorance, until finally Job rwrestlesests in nothing but loyalty to God and the hope of his redemption. Neither Job nor his friends at that time understood the reasons for his suffering. In fact, when Job is finally confronted by the Lord, Job remains silent. Job’s quiet response does nothing to lessen the intense pain and loss he so patiently endured. Rather, it underscores the importance of trusting in God’s purposes in the midst of suffering, even when we do not understand its meaning. Suffering, like all other human experiences, is governed by God’s sovereign wisdom. Ultimately, we learn that although we may never know the specific reason for our suffering, we must trust in our sovereign God. That is the real answer to suffering.

Another example of suffering in the Bible is the story of Joseph in the book of Genesis. Joseph was sold into slavery by his own brothers. In Egypt he was accused of false accusations and thrown into prison. As a result of Joseph’s suffering and perseverance, Joseph, by God’s grace and power, is later promoted to the governorship of Egypt, second only to Pharaoh himself. In a time of famine, he found himself in the position of caring for the nations of the world, including his own family and brothers who sold him into slavery! The message of this story is summed up in Joseph’s address to his brothers in Genesis 50:19–21: “Do not be afraid! Am I here instead of God? You planned evil against me, but God turned it for good, so that it became what it is today, to save the lives of many people. Don’t worry now! I will feed you and your children. So he comforted them and spoke kindly to them.”

Romans 8:28 contains some comforting words for those who endure hardship and suffering: “We know that all things work together for good to those who love God, who have been called according to his purpose.” God, in His providence, arranges every event in our lives—even suffering, temptation, and sin—for our benefit both temporally and eternally.

The psalmist David suffered much in his time and this is reflected in many of his poems collected in the book of Psalms. In the 22nd Psalm, we hear David’s anxiety: “My God, my God! why did you leave me You are far from my salvation, far from my cry, my God, I call in the day — you do not answer. I call at night — I can’t calm down. You, the Holy One, are enthroned over the praises of Israel. Our fathers hoped in you, they hoped, and you delivered them. They cried out to you and were saved. They hoped in you, and were not ashamed. I am like a worm, not like a man; I am a laughing stock to people, even my own people have rejected me. All who see me mock me, sneer, shake their heads: He trusted in the Lord, he should save him. Let him tear him out, because he is fond of him.”

For David, it remains a mystery why God does not intervene and end his suffering and pain. He sees that God is enthroned as the Holy One, on the praises of Israel. God lives in heaven, where all is good, where there is no crying, no fear, no hunger, no hatred. What does God know about all that people endure? David further complains that “The dogs surrounded me, a band of evil-doers seized me, they pierced my hands and feet. I can count all the bones. They are watching, their eyes are on me. They divide my garment, they cast lots for my clothing.”

Did God ever answer David? Yes, many centuries later, David received his answer. About one millennium later, a descendant of David named Jesus was killed on a hill called Calvary. Jesus endured the suffering and shame of his ancestor on the cross. Christ’s hands and feet were pierced. Christ’s robe was divided among his enemies. They looked at Christ and mocked him. In fact, Christ spoke the words with which David begins this psalm: “My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?” So he identified with David’s suffering.

Christ, the eternal Son of God, in whom dwells the fullness of God, lived on earth as a man and endured hunger, thirst, temptation, shame, persecution, nakedness, sorrow, betrayal, mockery, injustice and death. Therefore, he is in a position to fulfill the desire of Job: “There is no one who judges between us, who lays his hand on us both. Let him remove his rod from me, and let not his fear terrify me, then I will speak and not be afraid of him, for it is not so with me” (Job 9:33).

Christian theism is actually the only worldview that can consistently understand the problem of evil and suffering. Christians serve a God who lived on this earth and endured trauma, temptation, death, torture, hunger, thirst, persecution and even execution. The cross of Christ can be considered the ultimate manifestation of God’s justice. When asked how much God cares about the problem of evil and suffering, the Christian God can point to the cross and say, “Like this.” Christ experienced rejection from God and said: “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?”. He experienced the same suffering as many people today who feel isolated from God’s favor and love.

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The drama of faith.

When we open the Bible and follow the journey of the chosen people of God in the deepening, clarifying, and purifying of their faith, we come to see how difficult this journey is leading to the mystery of God, how difficult is the journey of faith. And not only for Israel, but also for us. Every day, we can see how we are affected by every… on every corner of our lives. And we must not forget that faith itself is darkness and uncertainty. That is why we speak of the drama of faith. So when we enter this real tunnel, we should remember Jesus’ invitation, “Strive for this, to enter through the narrow door.” (Luke 13:24) The test in the desert.
In several places, the Council presents the life of faith as It, even compares it to a pilgrimage (LG 2:8, 65). Israel’s journey through the desert. This journey certainly meant for the faith of Israel in the Lord a trial by fire. But while it is true that faith Israel’s faith came out of this test strengthened, we can see in this journey, we can observe both adoration and blasphemy, obedience and rebellion, faithfulness and apostasy, calling on the Lord and protesting against him. All of this can be a great symbol of our relationship to God while we’re “on the road” and most importantly, and I’d like to emphasize, it is also a symbol of all the fluctuations and confusions that each person suffers as they ascend to God in their lives of faith. As we see it in the Bible, few people have been of these weaknesses have been spared. When the time was fulfilled, God entered the scene of human history.
He stepped in to touch people, to set them free, to make them equal to himself. God’s friend and the leader of the people, Moses, stands up Pharaoh, gathers the scattered people and sets out with them on a to the land of the free. Out of Egypt, the great journey of faith to light begins. But even after the first steps, the hearts of the people begin to twist like a crisis of faith. Doubt makes them cry out: “Was it not in Egypt enough graves for us to die in the midst of?” (Ex. 14:11).
“It has come to that which we talked about in Egypt: Let us be, that we may serve Egypt. For it was better for us to serve than to die in the wilderness.” (Ex. 14:12). The people give prefer security to freedom. In the midst of confusion, the only thing Moses keeps his faith alive: Fear not, O Lord. “he will shine in his glory” and tomorrow you will see his glory (Ex. 14:13), for the Lord “will fight for us and with us.”
After these words, the faith of the people was rekindled. And on their own …they observe with their own eyes phenomena never seen before. Suddenly, a strong wind arose, that parted the waters of the sea. And the people passed through the middle of the sea on dry land, the waters were a wall to their left and right, while the Egyptians were trapped at the bottom of the sea. In the face of this, the people believed the Lord and his servant Moses” (Ex. 14:31) and sang him a song of victory (Ex. 15:1-18). Yet they needed one more “sign”, to renew their faith. “Blessed are those who have not seen, and yet believed” (John 20:29).
They went out into the wilderness of Sure and wandered in the desert for three days. And in the desert again the faith of the people is put to the test. The silence of the earth and sometimes the silence of the of God falls upon their souls, and they feel fear. They have run out of supplies. What will they eat? And despondency and longing fall upon the people like a ravening, and rebellion is born. “But you have brought us out into this wilderness, only to starve this whole congregation to death. Would that we had had died by the sword at the hands of the Egyptians” (Ex 16:3).
The people eventually succumbed to the temptation to repent and began again crying out: “Who will give us meat to eat? We remember
the fish we had for free in Egypt, the cucumbers and melons, leeks, onions, and garlic.” (Nu 11:5) Moses, whose faith remained unshaken as he daily spoke with God “as with a friend,” he told them: “I with your I have nothing to do with your grumbling, it is a grumbling against It is a grumbling against the Lord. But I assure you that in the morning you will see the Lord’s and your murmuring will be ridiculous.” (cf. Ex. 16:5-9) The quail flew in toward evening and descended on the camp. And in the morning something like dew fell around the camp, and every morning the people they were fed every morning. (Ex. 16:13-16). The wandering continued in the blazing sun through a sea of hot sand towards Pradesh-Barnes. And as they walked, again their souls were seized with despondency and temptation; the temptation to stop, to abandon the wandering and return to the old comfortable life, albeit in slavery. “Therefore hast thou brought us out of Egypt, that thou lightest bring us , our sons and our flocks to quench our thirst” (Ex 17:3).
And at this moment a piercing doubt casts away the memory of so many wonders, criticizes the foundation of faith, and expresses itself in that terrible question: “Is the Lord among us, or is he not? ” (Ex. 17:7) Doubt has reached its highest peak. Therefore, the place was called Massey (because they were protesting against God) and Meribah (because they tempted the Lord). This was a test in the wilderness on the road to the land of Canaan. Few people who take God seriously have not had to go through some severe test.
New trials in new deserts
The journey of faith has always been rough and difficult, but in our time the difficulties even more so. The Church today is going through a new desert. For those wandering in the wilderness are threatened with what they once were: the petulance of being God is not seen, new “gods” who want us to be to worship, and the temptation to stop on this hard road of faith and return to the comfort of “fertile Egypt”.

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Healing the deaf-mute Mk 7, 31-37

Hearing impairment is severe because it can significantly affect a child’s development. The degree of disability and the age at which the disability occurred are essential. The way of communication is significant. They are hearing disability results from an organ or functional disorder in any part of the auditory analyzer, pathway, and cortical centers. A person is born with congenital deafness. In this case, the child does not even learn to speak, it becomes deaf and dumb, which may be hereditary deafness, an infectious disease of the mother during pregnancy or others. Deafness can also be acquired during life as a result of overcome diseases. According to the evangelist, it was deafness from birth.

Muteness is the loss of the ability to speak or communicate using speech. In contrast to the deaf-mute, hearing is preserved, so mutes hear but do not speak. Loss of speech can manifest as an inability to speak normal language, with the affected person being able to make certain sounds. Deaf mutes from birth could not learn to talk because they were born deaf. In our case, it was such a person. Even modern medicine cannot treat this disease. The lives of such disabled people can only be improved with the help of technical aids, but it cannot cure deafness and muteness from birth.

From the above we can see that 2000 years ago Christ also healed such a severely disabled person, which we cannot explain otherwise, except by confessing that only God can prove it. Thus, Jesus is the God who usually healed with simple words three times, even at a distance (Mt 8:5-13; Mk 7:29-30; Jn 4:46-54). In this case, he first used external signs: he touched his ears and his tongue, looked up to heaven with a sigh, and worked a miracle with his powerful words. 

Another peculiarity is that there is no mention of the condition of faith for healing. The sick person is healed, not because of his proven faith, but because the mighty Son of God came into the world to indicate the final salvation with a miraculous sign. Both peculiarities can be explained if we consider that the miracle took place in the Decapolis, a pagan resort with a famous bath on the eastern side of Lake Tiberias. The Lord thereby gave a certain message to the Gentiles while using the signs of the practices of the ancient doctors.

The physical healings performed by Jesus always have an existential relationship to salvation because sickness and death are the consequences of sin, and its definitive overcoming also includes the elimination of sickness and death. By healing the deaf and dumb, he wants to tell us: You, too, are often deaf and dumb, unable to listen and give an excellent response to God’s word. 

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Sixth Sunday in ordinary Time Year B Mark 1,40-45

We can say that today’s first reading and the Gospel form such a frame of the picture. We could also compare it to a series and say that the first reading is the first part and the Gospel is the last, final part. The final part went well, the sick man was healed, so we could leave with a good feeling. When you watch a series, you end up saying to yourself: “Well, after all, it’s happening somewhere on that TV, it doesn’t concern me”, but this series, which today’s texts are talking about, concerns us, it concerns every one of us. But I will start with the disease and the history as it was.

The Israelites were very afraid after they left Egypt. They were afraid that some calamity, some epidemic would befall the nation, and therefore they tried to eliminate, eliminate all risks, reduce them to a minimum, and therefore here with these diseases that they could not cure (they did not even know how to treat them, not as cure it yet), so they were already putting forward what are called quarantine measures, isolation. And that measure was very harsh, because as we heard in the first reading, three symptoms were listed there: a sore on the skin, a scab, or a bright spot. But all these are far from the symptoms of leprosy. These are the symptoms quite extensively of other various diseases. But because there was that great fear, this person was isolated, immediately.

So it also became obvious that they isolated people who were not lepers, and who, on the contrary, were in great danger of contracting the leprosy. A man who was thus brought before a high priest or a priest, and he preached over him that lesson about the signs, that man was truly isolated. We can say, he was dead in three ways: medically, socially and religiously. On the social side, there was the fact that he had to move out of the Israeli camp. After that, when they lived in Palestine, in the Holy Land, these people had to leave the city, the village, and lived in some caves or in some shelters. They had to wear clothes that showed that something was wrong with the person, that he was dressed strangely, that something was wrong with him. And when they had to meet someone, they had to shout: “Unclean, unclean!” In later times, they “improved” it even more, so that if they were moving in a group, then at least one of them had to have a bell and ring it, so that a random pedestrian would not approach them. Other people were not supposed to approach them at a distance of less than 10 steps. Why? Well, because then they themselves risked being put in that quarantine. So great was the fear of this disease. The man was cut off from everything. He was actually surviving. There was a big mistake on the religious side. They believed that this terrible disease will be given to the person who has sinned in some terrible way, transgressed against God. And in this they made a great mistake, that they always connected it with sin and with the punishment for sin. This is definitely not the case. When we hear it like that, we say to ourselves: “So it was inhumane.” Yes, it was very harsh, and those people who were infected with leprosy, those people were actually sentenced to death, to a slow, gradual death. They actually justified it by saying that if they were left there, far more people would die. This is a question of prevention and these things, but we will look at it in a different way. When we talk about the lepers, about the fact that they were isolated, we say to ourselves: “That was once upon a time, that doesn’t concern us.” But let’s try to realize that every leper had a family – a father, mother, siblings, or even a wife , children. And for these people who remained in that company – their brother, husband, wife – it was not a stranger, but it was a person they loved, and he could not be with them at once.

So these relatives tried to make life easier for them. They brought them food, clothes, made appointments to have fun at a distance of ten steps and thus tried to support them in every possible way. They tried to show them sympathy. And now we come to what is in the gospel, and what concerns us. Every quarantine, isolation builds dams between people, barriers that are sometimes difficult to cross, that many times people don’t even want to cross. Many times we come across that those barriers are artificially created and people have no compassion. Jesus breaks down that barrier – he talks to him, goes to him, touches him. If that person was healed or if Jesus healed him, then Jesus would also have to be quarantined. And the fact that Jesus touched the leper, that he stretched out his hand to him, for all those around Jesus, was unimaginable, something unheard of. In doing so, Jesus really broke all the regulations of the time. He did it because he had compassion, could help, and knew how to help. Jesus does not stop at pity, but helps.

As a result of original sin, we all tend to build barriers around ourselves, to protect ourselves. In a way, when we think about it, we all want to live in safety, and we also try to build the space we live in to be safe. This means that people I like, people I like, people who don’t threaten me (at least that’s what I tell myself), people who don’t compete with me, for example, with those friends. Those who, in my opinion, could in some ways threaten, harm or overshadow me, I push them out: “They are not my friends. Let them stay somewhere, I don’t count with them in my world.” And this is how we build barriers.

As I say, we are all prone to it, it is a consequence of the fall of the first people. So, it can be explained humanly, but according to the Gospel it is not justifiable. The Gospel asks us, first, to realize that we have these tendencies, and secondly, the Gospel asks us to try to destroy them. I would point out that the emphasis is really on “trying to break down”, because we don’t always succeed. But now I am not talking about those barriers that are, we would say, worldwide, like enmity between nations, barriers between races, the gap between the rich and the poor, but I am talking about the environment in which each of us lives. It is not so visible there. We do not live in any tense situation, in any strained relationships. It’s all more “combed”. Perhaps it is not visible at first glance, but … There is a “but”. Each of us should ask what it looks like with those barriers around me, if he doesn’t like it and if he isn’t happy with it. The barriers are of all kinds: barriers of political opinions, economic situation, between the young, between the old, between the healthy, the sick and I don’t know what else. The first thing to overcome them: it is necessary to have compassion, to see the other person, that he has a face, that he is not an anonymous person, that he is not just some number in statistics, but that he is a living person. This is how Jesus sees him.

And then another thing: asking Jesus: “Lord, what can I do? How could I change it, how could I tear it down?” As I say, it doesn’t always work, but almost always it can be at least mitigated. We have to realize that the Church in which we live, which we create, does not belong only to some elite, some selected group of people, but all those who belong to it are healed and purified. From what? Well, from our mistakes, because Jesus is the one who heals us all the time. He heals us by forgiving us. We can say: “I belong to Jesus, but I belong there because He healed me.” Jesus is the one who came to heal, to purify, to unite. All these are the basic features of the gospel. We, as disciples of Jesus, should report to this and try to apply it. So let us succeed with his help.

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St. Hieronymus Ämiliani.

Girolamo (Latin: Hieronymus) was born into the wealthy Venetian patrician family of the Miani (Latin: Aemiliani). After receiving a lavish upbringing and training, he embarked on a military career at the age of 15. In 1506 he was admitted to the Grand Council (Maggior Consiglio) of his hometown. He also quickly made his career as an officer; In the Great Venetian War (1508–1511) between the Republic of Venice and the League of Cambrai, he rose to the rank of general . As commander of the fortress of Castelnuovo di Quero, he had to bow to French superiority in 1511 and was taken prisoner of war. [1] That is why he is often seen in pictures with a chain. According to legend, the Virgin Mary appeared to him in the dungeon and gave him a key to open the shackles. After escaping from captivity, he dedicated his life to becoming a priest. He also founded several orphanages where children who had lost their parents in the war found shelter. [2] In the following years, at the request of the local bishops, he expanded his activities to Milan , Pavia and Verona . [3] Hieronymus Ämiliani remained a layman throughout his life. Pope John Paul II described him as a “layman who inspires laypeople.” [4]

When there was a famine in Venice in 1528, which was exacerbated by an epidemic of plague, Jerome gathered young men to help the hungry, sick and dying. In 1531 Jerome finally left his father’s house. He and two of his companions, the priests Alessandro Besozzi (Latinized: Besuzius) and Agostino Barili, decided to write a Vita communis . In 1532 a community arose in Bergamo under the leadership of Agostino Barili, and in 1534 a community arose in Somasca under the leadership of Hieronymus. Their house became the mother house of the Somaski order. On February 8, 1537, Hieronymus Ämiliani died of the plague .

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Doubts are inevitable, they move us to a higher level in the Spirituel.

Let’s not ask what we did wrong, but let’s focus on finding the answer to what God wants from us.    

After conversations about, which represent the seven cardinal sins, we will gradually bring conversations about the virtues. We start with faith.

“When faith focuses purely on doctrinal formulations, it risks speaking only to the head without touching the heart. And when it focuses only on the action, it risks becoming moralizing and reduced to only the social side.

However, faith is life, it is experiencing the love of God, who changed our existence,” says Pope Francis in the book On Vices and Virtues .

We talked about life with the gift of faith with Franciscan Gabriel Prievalský, OFM, who decided to believe when he was 33 years old.

“God is always patiently offering us this gift and waiting for our response. However, after accepting it, we must not rest on our laurels that we are already finished Christians. It is a life-long voyage, if we stop rowing, we move away from the goal,” explains Father Gabriel.

It also encourages parents who worry that their children have lost their faith. It is natural that there will be moments in a person’s life when faith does not make sense to him.

“However, such situations presuppose faith on their part as well. It is God’s formation not only of a person in a moment of crisis, but also of their maturation in faith,” says the Franciscan.

Faith does not work without doubts, they are even necessary for us to move forward in our spiritual life. Father Gabriel compares it to an “atomic bomb” that sometimes God throws into our lives so that we consider his direction.

What does it mean that faith is a theological virtue?

Its originator and giver is God. Faith opens a person to devotion to God. So it is not faith in the sense that we believe the teacher that three plus three is six. It is focused on God.

If faith is a gift from God, how come not everyone has it?

God truly offers this gift to everyone. But the acceptance of the gift presupposes a human response. There are various circumstances in life that prevent a person from accepting faith. However, this does not rule out that one day the moment will come when he opens up to something higher. The Lord God leads us along different paths, and only he sees into the heart of a person.

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However, the faith of those who received this gift is not the same. Does God give different sizes of gift boxes?

The Lord God gives to everyone according to his natural abilities and possibilities. At the same time, it is the freedom of God to give as much as He wants, considering the intentions He has for man. However, He gives everyone enough to be enough for salvation and personal perfection. No one is deprived.

St. Francis de Sales talks about the fact that the piety of a religious is different, the piety of a worker is different, and the piety of a bishop is different. The same applies to, for example, the spiritual life of a mother or religious. Everyone has their own spirituality and comparison is not appropriate.

Let us not look to the faith of others, let us take care to realize our vocation with the equipment with which we have been gifted. Envy can lead us to realize what we would like in life and who we would like to be, says theologian Lucia Hidvéghyová.

There will be moments in a person’s life when faith does not make sense to him. Are such doubts natural?

Doubts in faith are even necessary in order for us to progress further in our spiritual life, to a higher level.

The first significant moment is for young people during puberty, when they start to rebel. And this rebellion in the area of ​​faith consists in the fact that their childish faith is no longer enough for them. They need to take it to another level and believe in a personal God.

I tell parents who worry about their child’s loss of faith that such situations presuppose faith on their part. It is God’s formation not only of a person in a moment of crisis, but also of their maturation in faith. To despair of a patient is to insult the doctor.

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Adhering to the traditions.

To be fundamentally a good and wise thing; these are of course wise and good traditions. However, the issue of tradition can be misunderstood – and the Lord Jesus presents it in the right light today. Traditions that oppose God’s commandments, such as the shameful tradition of getting drunk on the occasion of family celebrations; in addition, to various ancient exaggerations, charms, and superstitions. But the wise and noble traditions are often the complement of the commandments and guard the commandments. Such traditions include e.g., joint prayer in the family, prayer of the rosary, May devotions, rorats, fasting, First Friday devotions, participation in spiritual renewal, in the procession on the feast of the Most Holy Body and Blood of Christ. It is typically our domestic, paternal traditions that decide even our national identity.

And even the very connection to a wise tradition should be wise. Lord Jesus today quotes a drastic example of the unwise cult of tradition. So it would be something unwise and bad, e.g. to leave a sick person at home without care – to go to a midnight procession or pilgrimage. Especially if the tradition is supposed to be an expression of fidelity to the commandments – first, it is a commandment of love: no tradition has the right to cancel this commandment – and this is clearly stated in today’s Gospel.

An example of noble loyalty to tradition is participation in St. masses – and St. Mass. Henryk Sienkiewicz – at the end of one of his novels – draws attention to the fact that although various structures, customs, and sizes have passed away over the centuries – so St. the mass is “in the old glory”. Here one can realize that it is not so much “in the old” way; it is the older people who remember that once upon a time at St. Mass had different speeches and ceremonies. Of course, but there is a confirmation of what has been said here: that for wise reasons the less serious details of the tradition must often give way – to save the tradition itself. So also in St. certain non-essential elements were removed from the Mass – so that the essential elements stood out more prominently: sacrifice, transfiguration, breaking of Bread – the rest always consistent with tradition.

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A deep cry before God is more valuable than our grumbling in front of the TV.

The initial “yes” to God is sometimes easy to say. Persisting when the various struggles come is arduous.

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During the deacon practice, we spent a week in a hospital in the summer to get a little closer to the world of the sick. They are a fixed part of the priest’s care, although it is not very joyful and even the priest’s throat sometimes dries up.

Cesarean section, removal of varicose veins, skin transplantation after being scalded with stew – these are just some of the experiences that were not pleasant. Doctors also sent us to talk with patients. One of us managed to make a faux pas when he addressed the dying man by asking how the health care was useful to him… The school does not prepare for some situations.

Like Job, he is not prepared for the onslaught of “Job” messages. “My eye shall see no more happiness” is one of the weaker reproaches with which he will later litter the sky. Saint Jerome compares this book to an eel that escapes the more we try to catch it.

The job cannot be classified historically. The biblical scholar Martini speaks of a placeholder, a “laboratory model” of a righteous man who attracts evil for no reason – although he takes care of his family, makes regular sacrifices to God, and lives as an innocent. Suffering for your mistakes is understandable. But to suffer through the fault of others, their decisions, to suffer undeservedly – that’s drama.

Something of the mystery of God is revealed in Job. For example, the fact that his story is not only tied to the Jewish faith is more universal. We do not find there the theme of the covenant, the temple, Jerusalem or priestly service. The most recent Jewish biblical literature (Job, Wisdom, Ecclesiastes) brings up the theme of retribution that doesn’t work, and non-believing observers like to point this out. There is no reward for good and no punishment for evil.

The three main characters are clear: Job, God and Satan. The last one will probably surprise us. He is allowed to test a person first by touching his property. After failing, he goes further and touches the integrity of his body.

Satan, as the accuser of man (a favorite theme of Pope Francis), claims that true piety does not exist because man is incapable of selfless love. He considers it a delusion and an illusion. What the critics of religion like to say today: the deity was invented by man to defend and sublimate his own motivations, which are not altruistic.

The reader feels that he is drawn into a struggle where he can honestly admit that reproaches against God and cursing of heaven will appear even in the hearts of honest people. Simply, exams exist and will exist for everyone. That initial “yes” to God is sometimes easy to say. Persisting when the various struggles come is arduous.

“It is important not to close our eyes to the suffering of the body and even then to offer a certain spirituality with realism based on our limitations.”

Martin Luther, who threw a bottle of ink at the tempter when he was put to the test, would probably agree. When commenting on the Book of Job, he noted that perhaps God listens with more interest and without offense to the cry of the desperately ill, to the point of blasphemy, than the prayers of ordinary Christians who participate in Sunday liturgies in their comfortable lives.

So the human feeling of bitterness is not condemned by the Bible. On the contrary, it preserved it as part of an inspired sacred text.

Christian faith accepts and develops this Jewish realism. It is the religion of the body, because the human body was sanctified by God’s incarnation. It is important not to close our eyes to the suffering of the body and even then to offer a certain spirituality with realism based on our limitations. It is a spirituality of openness to a horizon that transcends human senses.

Something similar was experienced by a married couple in the pilgrimage town of Cascia, where I spent a few months assisting the local priest. The first thing Don Renzo did in the new parish was the funeral of a girl who committed suicide at a young age. His closeness to the parents who died during the period of mourning caused their faith to deepen.

Thanks to the good priest, they not only found answers to their painful questions, but later offered their qualities in preparing the betrothed before marriage. Their transformed pain seemed to become the fuel cell of the ship, which steered it into new waters of active faith in the community.

A deep cry before God saved them from a lifetime of grumbling about how cruel and unjust the world is. French philosopher Emmanuel Mounier (1905-1950) experienced something similar. Benedict XVI also heard his thoughts at the bedside of his daughter, who was stricken with meningitis and later died. during one of the spiritual exercises in the Vatican.

“What would be the meaning of all this if our little girl were only a sick body, only a bit of painful life, and not, on the contrary, a white host that transcends us all, one great mystery?… We should not think of pain as something that it came to us to take, but for something that was given to us and we can give… I felt that when I approached his little bed without a voice, it was as if I approached the altar…

We wished our little Françoise to die. But isn’t it just the desire of a well-fed society? Who knows if it is not the other way around: if we have not been asked to guard and adore the guest in our midst. My little Françoise, you are the image of faith for me.”

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Consecration of candles for Grounhog Day.

Groundhog Day – February 2

Groundhogs were considered a transitional period between winter and spring. They are also a symbol of increasing light, as evidenced by folk proverbs, for example:
On New Year’s, a chicken’s step, on Three Kings, one step further, and Groundhog Day, one hour more.

Groundhogs are the popular name for the Christian feast of the Lord’s Sacrifice. Believers celebrate it on February 2. It is the day of remembrance of the sacrifice of Jesus in the temple and is celebrated on the 40th day after his birth. It is a holiday that has its roots in pre-Christian, Old Slavic culture.

In the past, people believed that when water flowed from the roof of Hromnice, the winter would last a long time. Or if there is a strong frost, you need to speed up the winter work, because spring is already knocking on the door. There were really enough customs and superstitions for this day. On Groundhog Day, housewives cooked long pasta to grow long plants. Or girls and boys went tobogganing and chose the longest track possible. The longer the track, the longer the flax and hemp. The length of the linen could also be predicted by the length of the hanging icicles.

Many prohibitions also applied to Candlesmas. It was a ban on sewing, but also work in the forest.
Groundhog Day was a day used to predict the weather. The longer the winter in Hromnice, the better the harvest, the warmer the summer and the early spring. He prefers to see a groundhog in a wolf in a basket than a peasant in a shirt. Everyone was afraid of warm Groundhog Day, and warm February because it predicted a long winter, a bad harvest, and the resulting poverty. When there are snow storms on Groundhog Day, spring will soon appear with a smiling face. If it freezes in Hromnice, it will be a good summer.

On this day, the owners gathered around the houses, with a glass and a warm oven. The so-called “much”. It was believed that those who did not drink on this day were to be bitten by flies and vermin throughout the year.

However, the most well-known and most important Hromnica custom is the consecration of candles during the holiday liturgy and going around the church.
Groundhog candles called “thunderbolts” were an important means of protection against storms: against thunder and lightning. In addition to the dwelling, they also protected crops and people who were stuck in the storm.

Peasant women used to drop a little wax from the consecrated candles in the church directly into the prayer book. At home, they then scraped it into linseed and set it aside for sowing. They believed that such flax would be protected from a destructive storm.

Candles, “crushers” used to be in almost every household. They were also lit near the dying person, near the head, as a protection against unclean forces and also to shine during his journey to the other world. This custom continues to this day. Plantains were also used in folk medicine for various diseases, for example against sore throats and angina. It is said that they also treated other inflammatory trifles.

In 494, Pope Gelasius introduced in the church the tradition of a procession around the church with burning candles, specially blessed for this purpose, to replace the procession with candles, which was part of the pagan festival.

There is no more winter in Groundhog Day chumelice.
The streets are blowing on Groundhog Day.
They passed the Groundhogs, the end of the sled.

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