Young people today live under one roof and we still talk about natural methods

Jesus’ temptation and its meaning
Our temptations
Temptations in prayer
How to overcome temptation?

“Our marriage preparation system is not only insufficient but from our point of view it is even demotivating. Sitting around the table and talking about the topics of Christian marriage is quite unattractive for today’s betrothed,” said the Ďurinovci couple, who participated in the preparations for the marriage.Veronika Ďurinová is an ophthalmologist and her husband Juraj Ďurina is a gastroenterologist, they have three children. Both are committed Catholics, used to serving in the church among families or with children.
When the parish asked them to be involved as doctors in the preparation of couples for sacramental marriage, they gladly agreed and together with other couples organized courses for engaged couples. Today, they speak openly about why they left this service.
“Betrothed today can’t even communicate with each other, they don’t know each other. We can later reach God through natural human themes. But imagine having to talk about natural family planning to people who not only can’t pray, but can’t even talk honestly with each other. In the church, we should already openly name what the reality is in this area, what kind of people and in what situations go to betrothal preparations,” the Ďurinovs claim in the interview.
Today we stand on the threshold of the Lenten season, which urges us to “repentance of heart.” And whoever we are, wherever we are and however well we live or fail, this is the promised time in which the Lord lets us find ourselves again. He desires nothing else, only that when he calls in our heart, we have the courage to listen to his voice and find ourselves in it. The psalmist’s words come to life as a call: “Hear his voice today: “Do not harden your hearts” (Psalm 95:8).
In the living tradition of the Church, Lent is experienced as a “journey of repentance.” In prayer, we call on God to make himself known to us and guide us in his word and presence in the midst of our lives. To make our “crossing over the Red Sea” with us. Passage from the “land of the heart” marked by unbelief, revelry, numbness, lassitude, inconstancy, undue hesitation, mistrust of oneself and others, timidity in dialogue, fear of opening up to others, inability to fight with evil and sin. In connection with such a possible disposition of the soul, we may recall the image of a meadow that is gradually consumed by fire.
In the past, pastures were burned to kill the old ones and destroy pests. And even if everything falls to ashes and at first sight the land is decimated, after a while new grass will grow, the meadows will bloom again and life will be renewed on them. Maybe like never before. Shouldn’t something similar happen with our soul? Now is not the time when Jesus also tells us: “I have come to cast fire on the earth; and what do I want? Only to catch fire” (Lk 12, 49)! The fire of God’s Spirit, which burns everything harmful, but ignites hearts in the bud to a true life of God’s love. This internal action of God’s Spirit is well described by the psalmist’s request: “Search me, Lord, and test me, burn my heart and mind with fire” (Ps 26, 2).
Lent is also a “path of conversion,” on which God wants to draw me essentially to himself. From the experience of many, it seems that God will guide us through our “personal weakness.” As Bili Gaham writes in the introduction of the book – Walking by Grace: “However, the truth is that those who rely on themselves quickly burn out. And when we are burned out, destroyed, and down, God teaches us that trusting Christ is more important than trusting only in our own abilities.” (S. MCVEY, Walking by Grace, i527.net, 214, p. 14) An extended history of the soul of a Christian is that his faith does not work as it should or as he would imagine. And so it turns off to perform with the last strength until it breaks. The accompanying sign is that he has been living in superficiality for an extended period of time, thus turning a sincere and searching Christian into a frustrated Christian. This experience of spiritual life is illustrated by the boldly told story of the American pastor in Alabama, Steve McVey. In the already mentioned book, he writes: “It happened on October 6, 1990. The clock in my study showed one after midnight and I was lying on the floor crying. Last year was miserable. I prayed that God would strengthen me, but He had a different plan for me. He made me weaker. And so I lay there – broken and without hope. In seventeen hours I was to give an annual report on the current state of our church. I could fake successes or come out with the truth. But I didn’t have the strength to pretend anything, I didn’t even have the courage to confess, so I just prayed and cried (…). It didn’t make sense to me. Has the God of this congregation called me to prepare a cruel fall for me? Did he not see what he was doing for Him? I had no idea what more he expected from me. I really tried my best. God, what else can I do? Silence. At that moment, it seemed that he was a thousand light years away from me. The burden of failure was suffocating me, and not just as a pastor. I felt that I had also failed as a Christian. If I serve God all my life and it’s still not enough, what else does he want from me?” (S. McVey, p. 19)
In the book, he describes his experience that in a culture where success is required at any cost, it develops on a person incredible pressure. “However, this pressure does not stop at the gates of the church. Many Christians strive to live to please Christ and eventually find that the Christian life does not work out the way they imagined it would. They are sincerely religious people and they try to serve Christ with all their might. Yet they are disgusted because they have some idea of what a Christian should do and they can’t do it. Their spiritual life is not wonderful, but they have come to the opinion that it will not be better.” (S. McVey, p. 21) After all, Christ promised us a blessed life with him, but nevertheless they find themselves in a “life marked by mediocrity.” How mentions, “such Christians long for a victorious Christian life, but do not know how to achieve it.” (S.McVey, p. 22)
Everyone who has become a Christian will find that the most important thing on the path of following the Lord is the bond of faith and the personal relationship of love through which God gives us the grace of salvation. No one can do anything to achieve it alone, as the Lord teaches us. Of course, the effort and will to live from this relationship will come as the next step. But many who converted understood that “our effort to do something for God will not help us experience victory (…). Did the effort bring you a feeling of real joy? For many years of my Christian life I lived in a trap characterized by this cycle: motivation – disgust – new surrender to God.” (S. McVey, p. 22)
This is supported, as he further mentions, by the prevailing opinion that “success comes from absolute surrender things and hard work (…). But it doesn’t work like that in spiritual life (…). Christian life is not based on performance, it is mainly focused on the person of Jesus Christ (…). Many contemporary Christians judge the quality of their spiritual life by whether they live in accordance with religious rules. Finally, they themselves will understand that despite all the efforts, this path leads nowhere.” (S. McVey, p. 28-29) What is the way out in all this, how to continue on the path, when it seems that many things of the spiritual life are no longer in control to stand on “own feet.” Steve confesses: “That morning (…), the Holy Spirit did a saving work in my heart and swallowed me up completely (…). It is a result of his grace in me that I have not experienced in more than eighteen years.” (S. McVey, p. 34)
The next evening he told the whole community from the pulpit that he was convinced “that we should cancel all programs and activities and simply only they began to seek God.” He confided in them that the Lord implanted his words in his mind: “That I may know Him and the power of His resurrection and share in His sufferings” (Phil 3, 10) The result was that “we started more together to pray (…). We started men’s prayer meetings every Tuesday at 6:30 p.m. Our women gradually began to meet and pray together. Our Bible studies began to focus on a sincere search for God. God similarly worked in our community as in my private life – he gradually broke us.” (S. McVey, p. 34-35)
Steve’s experience of faith shows us that even at this time, the Lord wants to unlearn us from relying on our own thinking strategy to fulfill our needs. The Bible calls this mechanism the body. It contains its own ways: desires, plans, motives, inclinations, with which we try to fulfill our needs without Christ, (cf. S. McVey, p. 35-36) In this situation, I think that “God will put more on your shoulders , than you can bear especially when he wants to break you. God will allow the burden to be greater than you can bear, so that we finally allow Him to carry the burden for you. God’s intention in this educational process is to bring you to the end of your strength, so that you understand that He is the only strength you need in life.” (S. McVey, p. 39) In this season of Lent, we can come to a similar experience as the pastor Steve that we have reached the end of our human possibilities. And then the only thing left for us will be Him. But as he says: “And that was not a bad beginning at all.” (S. McVey, p. 35)
We ask you, Lord, to lead us along your path of salvation to live a happier life of faith. To clean our well from all deposits of passions, bad habits, blocks, fears or prejudices that paralyze our reason, feelings, will, our life of faith and love. Teach us to open our hearts before You, Lord, with humility and courage. Shine a ray of your light into that well of ours. Let it be seen how much and what kind of water is in it. Strengthen us in faith that soon we will drink from it to our heart’s content and with joy we will be able to draw for you and quench your urgent thirst when we hear your voice (from the cross): “I thirst (for you).” (cf. Jn 19 , 28) From now on, I also follow you, Lord.
So what is the relationship between repentance and salvation? Acts seem to focus primarily on repentance rather than salvation (Acts 2:38; 3:19; 11:18; 17:30; 20:21; 26:20). To repent about salvation is to change your mind about Jesus Christ. Peter ends his sermon at Pentecost (Acts 2) with a call to repentance (Acts 2:38). Repentance of what? Peter calls the people who rejected Jesus (Acts 2:36) to change their thinking to recognize that He is indeed “Lord and Messiah” (Acts 2:36). Peter is calling people to change their minds from rejecting Christ as Messiah to believing in Him as Messiah and Savior.
Repentance and faith can be understood as “two sides of the same coin.” It is impossible to place your faith in Jesus Christ as your Savior without changing your mind about who He is and what He has done. Whether it is repentance from willful rejection or repentance from ignorance or disinterest, it is a change of mind. Biblical repentance to salvation is changing one’s mind from rejecting Christ to believing in Him.
We must understand that repentance is not an activity that we do to earn or obtain salvation. No one can repent and come to God unless God draws him to himself (John 6:44). Acts 5:31 and 11:18 indicate that repentance is something God gives—it is only possible through His grace. No one can repent unless God provides repentance. The result of all salvation, including repentance and faith, is that God draws us to Himself, opens our eyes, and changes our hearts. God’s patience leads us to repentance (2 Peter 3:9), as does His kindness (Romans 2:4).
Although repentance is not a work by which salvation can be earned, repentance to or for salvation results in works. It is impossible to truly and fully change one’s mind without it being reflected in actions. In the Bible, repentance leads to a change in behavior. This is why John the Baptist called people to “bear fruit worthy of repentance” (Matthew 3:8). A person who has truly repented from rejecting Christ to having faith in Christ will have visible evidence of a changed life (2 Corinthians 5:17; Galatians 5:19–23; James 2:14–26). Correctly defining repentance is necessary for salvation. Biblical repentance changes your mind about Jesus Christ and turns you to God in faith for salvation (Acts 3:19). The definition of repentance is not turning away from sin; that is just one of the results of sincere, faith-based repentance to the Lord Jesus Christ.
The Bible is surprisingly realistic about the problem of enduring suffering. First, the Bible devotes an entire book to solving this problem. This book is about a man named Job. It begins with a scene in heaven that provides the reader with the background of Job’s suffering. Job suffers because God wrestled with Satan. As far as we know, Job or any of his friends never knew this. Therefore, it is not surprising that everyone tries to explain Job’s suffering from the perspective of their ignorance, until finally Job rwrestlesests in nothing but loyalty to God and the hope of his redemption. Neither Job nor his friends at that time understood the reasons for his suffering. In fact, when Job is finally confronted by the Lord, Job remains silent. Job’s quiet response does nothing to lessen the intense pain and loss he so patiently endured. Rather, it underscores the importance of trusting in God’s purposes in the midst of suffering, even when we do not understand its meaning. Suffering, like all other human experiences, is governed by God’s sovereign wisdom. Ultimately, we learn that although we may never know the specific reason for our suffering, we must trust in our sovereign God. That is the real answer to suffering.
Another example of suffering in the Bible is the story of Joseph in the book of Genesis. Joseph was sold into slavery by his own brothers. In Egypt he was accused of false accusations and thrown into prison. As a result of Joseph’s suffering and perseverance, Joseph, by God’s grace and power, is later promoted to the governorship of Egypt, second only to Pharaoh himself. In a time of famine, he found himself in the position of caring for the nations of the world, including his own family and brothers who sold him into slavery! The message of this story is summed up in Joseph’s address to his brothers in Genesis 50:19–21: “Do not be afraid! Am I here instead of God? You planned evil against me, but God turned it for good, so that it became what it is today, to save the lives of many people. Don’t worry now! I will feed you and your children. So he comforted them and spoke kindly to them.”
Romans 8:28 contains some comforting words for those who endure hardship and suffering: “We know that all things work together for good to those who love God, who have been called according to his purpose.” God, in His providence, arranges every event in our lives—even suffering, temptation, and sin—for our benefit both temporally and eternally.
The psalmist David suffered much in his time and this is reflected in many of his poems collected in the book of Psalms. In the 22nd Psalm, we hear David’s anxiety: “My God, my God! why did you leave me You are far from my salvation, far from my cry, my God, I call in the day — you do not answer. I call at night — I can’t calm down. You, the Holy One, are enthroned over the praises of Israel. Our fathers hoped in you, they hoped, and you delivered them. They cried out to you and were saved. They hoped in you, and were not ashamed. I am like a worm, not like a man; I am a laughing stock to people, even my own people have rejected me. All who see me mock me, sneer, shake their heads: He trusted in the Lord, he should save him. Let him tear him out, because he is fond of him.”
For David, it remains a mystery why God does not intervene and end his suffering and pain. He sees that God is enthroned as the Holy One, on the praises of Israel. God lives in heaven, where all is good, where there is no crying, no fear, no hunger, no hatred. What does God know about all that people endure? David further complains that “The dogs surrounded me, a band of evil-doers seized me, they pierced my hands and feet. I can count all the bones. They are watching, their eyes are on me. They divide my garment, they cast lots for my clothing.”
Did God ever answer David? Yes, many centuries later, David received his answer. About one millennium later, a descendant of David named Jesus was killed on a hill called Calvary. Jesus endured the suffering and shame of his ancestor on the cross. Christ’s hands and feet were pierced. Christ’s robe was divided among his enemies. They looked at Christ and mocked him. In fact, Christ spoke the words with which David begins this psalm: “My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?” So he identified with David’s suffering.
Christ, the eternal Son of God, in whom dwells the fullness of God, lived on earth as a man and endured hunger, thirst, temptation, shame, persecution, nakedness, sorrow, betrayal, mockery, injustice and death. Therefore, he is in a position to fulfill the desire of Job: “There is no one who judges between us, who lays his hand on us both. Let him remove his rod from me, and let not his fear terrify me, then I will speak and not be afraid of him, for it is not so with me” (Job 9:33).
Christian theism is actually the only worldview that can consistently understand the problem of evil and suffering. Christians serve a God who lived on this earth and endured trauma, temptation, death, torture, hunger, thirst, persecution and even execution. The cross of Christ can be considered the ultimate manifestation of God’s justice. When asked how much God cares about the problem of evil and suffering, the Christian God can point to the cross and say, “Like this.” Christ experienced rejection from God and said: “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?”. He experienced the same suffering as many people today who feel isolated from God’s favor and love.
Muteness is the loss of the ability to speak or communicate using speech. In contrast to the deaf-mute, hearing is preserved, so mutes hear but do not speak. Loss of speech can manifest as an inability to speak normal language, with the affected person being able to make certain sounds. Deaf mutes from birth could not learn to talk because they were born deaf. In our case, it was such a person. Even modern medicine cannot treat this disease. The lives of such disabled people can only be improved with the help of technical aids, but it cannot cure deafness and muteness from birth.
From the above we can see that 2000 years ago Christ also healed such a severely disabled person, which we cannot explain otherwise, except by confessing that only God can prove it. Thus, Jesus is the God who usually healed with simple words three times, even at a distance (Mt 8:5-13; Mk 7:29-30; Jn 4:46-54). In this case, he first used external signs: he touched his ears and his tongue, looked up to heaven with a sigh, and worked a miracle with his powerful words.
Another peculiarity is that there is no mention of the condition of faith for healing. The sick person is healed, not because of his proven faith, but because the mighty Son of God came into the world to indicate the final salvation with a miraculous sign. Both peculiarities can be explained if we consider that the miracle took place in the Decapolis, a pagan resort with a famous bath on the eastern side of Lake Tiberias. The Lord thereby gave a certain message to the Gentiles while using the signs of the practices of the ancient doctors.
The physical healings performed by Jesus always have an existential relationship to salvation because sickness and death are the consequences of sin, and its definitive overcoming also includes the elimination of sickness and death. By healing the deaf and dumb, he wants to tell us: You, too, are often deaf and dumb, unable to listen and give an excellent response to God’s word.